Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Davis Snippets

A post by a friend's brother name Davis Hoang.

L-O-V-E

i wont pretend to be some kind of prefessor of love. but i keep hearing ppl ask, 'y would i try luving someone if that someone cud end up hurting me?' or 'how can u stand the person u luv saying they dun luv u anymore?'...

these situations are terrible, truly sad and difficult to deal with. but they'r like anything and everythin in life - if ur afraid of losing, how can u ever win? if u always think ur gonna lose, u'l never know it when u'v won.

love is a difficult topic and if u go at it with all u'v got too quickly and fall, ur gonna b left with nothing to continue with. u need to take things slow, get to know ur partner, understand them (if u can)...

if u do break up, its not the end of the world. sure, it's sudden. sure, it's unexpected. u mite have thought they loved u. but they don't anymore.. u'l get over it. the way i c it, if they didn't realise u were gud enuff to hold onto, then they did u a favour and gave u a chance to find someone who does.

don't even bother trying to get back with someone who has broken up with u. u deserve better than that. however, if someone u'v broken up with and hurt tremendously wants to get back with u, it probably means they really do love u and u'd b an idiot if u let them go a second time.

usually, a person can tell whether the person they'r with wants to b with them or just with somebody. hopefully u find a person who truly wants to b with u.. it's not easy, and not many ppl do..

if ur in love and u get hurt, u'l try to work things out to continue ur relationship. when the going gets tough, u deal with it. u figure it out together.

but it's a choice that everybody needs to make on their own. there are ppl who go thru life happily alone. some ppl require lonliness to b happy. but if ur not one of those ppl, i hope u do find someone u can truly care for and who truly cares for u.

i should write a book XD

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